the realist shit SHE ever wrote.

"Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people."
-Eleanor Roosevelt

don't you just hate when you talk to certain people and all they talk about the same shit every time they hit you up or vice versa. like nigga...nigga...really nigga...really!? every time you hit me up i don't want to hear your whole life story, nor do i want to talk shit about other people. fuck other people. let's discuss politics or news, and not the whose dating who shit but real news about our community and shit like that. damn...is everybody so dense and close minded?? or am i just weird as hell?? like weezy, sorry for cussing.

and i digress.

♥j.coco

just a thought.

so you mean to tell me people are so against chris brown for going upside rihanna's head but these same people, and by people i mean media...black media...condone r. kelly's child molesting ways.

someone please enlighten me on how this makes sense because, i don't get it!!

♥j.coco

16 & preggers.

right now i'm watching 16 & pregnant for the umpteenth time and i just don't understand why young girls think it will be all okey dokey when they get pregnant. i'm single and it's hard dealing with what i deal with, let alone a baby. i'm glad they're showing the downside of being a young mother because these young girls need to know the hardships that come with a pregnancy. there are a couple of girls i know that have become pregnant and they were so happy at first and then the next thing you know, they've broken up with their boyfriend and they're a single mother. i don't feel sorry for them because that's a situation that could have easily been prevented. and what kills me the most is to talk to a girl and she's like "oh it was a mistake"...bitch please, you weren't on birth control and you sure as hell didn't use a condom...accident my ass. but you can't tell these girls nothing. all i can do is thank the lord for birth control and that i've made it to 20 years and 8 months without a baby.

oh and they just so happened to be shooting the first episode in my hometown of chattanooga, tn.

♥j.coco

hidden agenda.

9 times out of 10, the guys that send me messages on myspace have a hidden agenda. either they have a girlfriend and tryin' to hook up with me on the flipside or they have multiple girls they're talking to simultaneously and they don't want to get tripped up. how do i know this?? because i've had a couple of exes that made it a conscious effort to delete every solitary incoming and outgoing message in their inbox and or when i asked for the rights to look through their messages, they hesitate, just to buy them enough time to rid themselves of the evidence. bottom line, guys are sneaky little sons-a-bitches but me...i'm on to their game like flies on shit. for real.

and i digress.

♥j.coco

time flies...

oh my word. like i've litterally been up since 9pm and it's now 6am. okay let me explain myself, although i don't like to do this much: yesterday i woke up around 10ish went to go take care of some business, came home around 3pm, got on myspace to chop it up for a few, then i decided to take what was supposed to be a "short" nap which turned into a 6 hour nap!! i woke up at 9ish ate dinner [pizza bagle bites] and hung out in the living room with my ma until 2am, came upstairs and 4 hours later i end up on here...look at this shit. i'm bout to go make myself some breakfast [pancakes] and then...possibly...go to bed.

♥j.coco

my little piece of happiness.

i'm the type of girl that's easy to please, it doesn't take much to make me happy and i don't know anyone else that's like me, anyone that can sit and listen to music for hours on end, read a book for hours on end, have a movie marathon for hours on end. would it be safe to say that i might be ahead of my time?? or just flat out boring??



♥ j.coco